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I couldn’t believe Bill O’Reilly made the comments he made about African-Americans.   Looks like his feelings don’t just pertain to rappers, but the entire Black race.  Watch it below for yourself:

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He gets this week’s award. In fact, I’ll give him two - one for the home and office. 

Do you think his comments are offensive or racist? Does it sound like he cares?

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I watched a play by one of my favorite writers (David E Talbert) Love on Lay-Away starring Deborah Cox, Mel Jackson, Marla Gibbs, etc. If you haven’t seen it yet, definately buy it or rent it. It’s on sale now at Amazon.com.

Anyway, after watching the play, it made me think about having “commitment phobia.”

Although most would contribute this issue to some men, some women also have this issue.

My third book – Paige’s Web is about a woman who has commitment phobia.

Have you ever had commitment phobia or know someone who has?

How much time is too much time to invest in a relationship before either moving forward with the one you’re with or abandoning it and waiting on someone who is ready to commit?

Thanks Tia @ Shake Your Beauty for this hair tip.

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These are courtesy of Mike. These are funny…all I can say is Yeah right

Please note.. these are all numbered “1 ”
ON PURPOSE!  (side note: Is it that men can not only follow directions, but they can’t count…oops)

1.   Men are NOT mind readers.

1. Learn to work the toilet seat.
You’re a big girl. If it’s up, put it down.
We need it up, you need it down.
You don’t hear us complaining about you leaving it down.

1. Sunday sports It’s like the full moon
or the changing of the tides.
Let it be.

1. Shopping is NOT a sport.
And no, we are never going to think of it that way.

1. Crying is blackmail.1. Ask for what you want.
Let us be clear on this one:
Subtle hints do not work!
Strong hints do not work!
Obvious hints do not work!
Just say it!

1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.

1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That’s what we do.
Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument.
In fact, all comments become Null and void after 7 Days.

1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the   other one 1. You can either ask us to do something
Or tell us how you want it done.
Not both.
If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.1. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during commercials..

A color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.1. If we ask what is wrong and you say “nothing,” We will act like nothing’s wrong.
We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.1. If you ask a question you don’t want an answer to, Expect an answer you don’t want to hear.

golf.1. You have enough clothes.

1. You have too many shoes.1. I am in shape.

 Round IS a shape!1. Thank you for reading this.
Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight;

 to give them a bigger laugh.