Grandfather His strength protected me His wisdom educated me His love shines through me. Dedicated to the one man who showed me unconditional love this side of heaven. JC Hogan (1916 – 2007) I will be offline for awhile but wanted to wish all of my regular blog visitors a Merry Christmas. I hope to resume posting and visiting each one of your blogs again in January. May God Bless each and every one of you. P.S. – All guest...

If we focus too much on ourselves and the troubles in our lives, it is very difficult to be happy. Lord, refresh my spirit, help me let go of longing to become something I am not and show me how to be the best of who I am. Random Daily Inspiration Get and keep a good humored attitude toward life. This will bring you support rather than opposition. Lord, may I always be a peacemaker.  ~ Author...

O.P.B. stands for Other People Blogs. These are a few places I visited this past week. Check them out: New Song by Janet Jackson – Is it a Hit or Miss? You Decide: Feedback – LISTEN Single Black Male has several interesting posts on his blog.  Check out Fundamental Character Flaw. Don over at Minus the Bars talked about “A man aint supposed to cry…” MegaRich asked the question about today’s AA books...

If you’ve ever been cheated on then you know how it feels to be betrayed. The one who is supposed to have your back, stabs you in the back.  Sometimes the woman he cheated with might not know he’s already involved, but then there are times, well there are times when they know.  The old saying “it takes two to tango” holds true for cheating. Have you ever met a guy and knew he was offlimits, but still felt the...

Never change yourself to fit someone else’s needs, because guess what–their needs will change. I made that statement to someone last week and it stuck with me all weekend. I’m single and meeting new people and wonder if I’m too outspoken, but then I thought about it. If a man can’t deal with a strong willed woman, then he shouldn’t waste my time nor his. I asked myself the question–How many times...