Comments on: C stands for Cheater http://sheliagoss.com/2007/12/13/c-stands-for-cheater/ Thu, 09 Feb 2012 12:41:03 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: shelia http://sheliagoss.com/2007/12/13/c-stands-for-cheater/comment-page-1/#comment-1190 shelia Sun, 16 Dec 2007 00:40:25 +0000 http://sheliago.powweb.com/sheliawp/2007/12/13/c-stands-for-cheater/#comment-1190 Peaches, I agree with you...I make no excuses. I'm tired of hearing "they can't help it." Yes, they can. A man can and will be faithful if he wants to. Peaches, I agree with you…I make no excuses. I’m tired of hearing “they can’t help it.” Yes, they can. A man can and will be faithful if he wants to.

]]> By: shelia http://sheliagoss.com/2007/12/13/c-stands-for-cheater/comment-page-1/#comment-1189 shelia Sun, 16 Dec 2007 00:38:00 +0000 http://sheliago.powweb.com/sheliawp/2007/12/13/c-stands-for-cheater/#comment-1189 Single Black Male, sounds like in those instances, the man was good on convincing the "other woman" to go along with a lie he made up. "In my opinion if he is talking, dating or in committed relationship he is off limits. " WrkNProgress, I agree. Marcus, thanks for sharing your story. It doesn't make it right whether its the man or woman cheating. Thankfully, you were able to forgive and move on so you could find happiness elsewhere. Single Black Male, sounds like in those instances, the man was good on convincing the “other woman” to go along with a lie he made up.

“In my opinion if he is talking, dating or in committed relationship he is off limits. ” WrkNProgress, I agree.

Marcus, thanks for sharing your story. It doesn’t make it right whether its the man or woman cheating. Thankfully, you were able to forgive and move on so you could find happiness elsewhere.

]]> By: Marcus Langford http://sheliagoss.com/2007/12/13/c-stands-for-cheater/comment-page-1/#comment-1191 Marcus Langford Sat, 15 Dec 2007 08:37:43 +0000 http://sheliago.powweb.com/sheliawp/2007/12/13/c-stands-for-cheater/#comment-1191 As a man whose marriage ended because of a cheating wife, it amazes me that there was a man that was actually the 'enabler'. Why I feel that men cheat at a higher rate than women do, the pain is still the same never the less. When I got married at 20-years old I did so knowing that my wife and I would always be together; that didn't happen. So five years after our divorce, my ex-wife and I have managed to become friends. I have left the past the past. I have a wonderful girlfriend now and I am looking forward to my future with her, and I am truly glad I was able to forgive my ex-wife because that helped me to move on with my life and trust women despite that incident. Time heals all wounds; well at least in my case it did. <a href="http://www.marcuslangford.com" rel="nofollow">MARCUS LANGFORD</a> As a man whose marriage ended because of a cheating wife, it amazes me that there was a man that was actually the ‘enabler’. Why I feel that men cheat at a higher rate than women do, the pain is still the same never the less. When I got married at 20-years old I did so knowing that my wife and I would always be together; that didn’t happen.

So five years after our divorce, my ex-wife and I have managed to become friends. I have left the past the past. I have a wonderful girlfriend now and I am looking forward to my future with her, and I am truly glad I was able to forgive my ex-wife because that helped me to move on with my life and trust women despite that incident.

Time heals all wounds; well at least in my case it did.

MARCUS LANGFORD

]]> By: WrkNProgress http://sheliagoss.com/2007/12/13/c-stands-for-cheater/comment-page-1/#comment-1192 WrkNProgress Fri, 14 Dec 2007 23:41:36 +0000 http://sheliago.powweb.com/sheliawp/2007/12/13/c-stands-for-cheater/#comment-1192 Great post!!! It's funny there are alot of women out there who think just because the man isn't married yet he is not off limits. In my opinion if he is talking, dating or in committed relationship he is off limits. Give him time to deal with what he has. One thing I have learned, Is what's meant for you, Is for you. Great post!!!

It’s funny there are alot of women out there who think just because the man isn’t married yet he is not off limits.

In my opinion if he is talking, dating or in committed relationship he is off limits.

Give him time to deal with what he has.

One thing I have learned, Is what’s meant for you, Is for you.

]]> By: Peaches http://sheliagoss.com/2007/12/13/c-stands-for-cheater/comment-page-1/#comment-1193 Peaches Fri, 14 Dec 2007 12:17:19 +0000 http://sheliago.powweb.com/sheliawp/2007/12/13/c-stands-for-cheater/#comment-1193 This is a great article, don't be an enabler. This is a common trend nowadays and I like that statement "the way you got the man is the same way you’ll lose the man…” in other words what you sow you will reap, if he cheats on his wife/gf most likely he will do it on you. Why do men feel the need to cheat, some say it's a man's thing, man shortage, nonsense, men can be faithful if they want to. Thanks for this article. This is a great article, don’t be an enabler. This is a common trend nowadays and I like that statement “the way you got the man is the same way you’ll lose the man…” in other words what you sow you will reap, if he cheats on his wife/gf most likely he will do it on you. Why do men feel the need to cheat, some say it’s a man’s thing, man shortage, nonsense, men can be faithful if they want to. Thanks for this article.

]]> By: Single Black Male http://sheliagoss.com/2007/12/13/c-stands-for-cheater/comment-page-1/#comment-1195 Single Black Male Thu, 13 Dec 2007 22:01:42 +0000 http://sheliago.powweb.com/sheliawp/2007/12/13/c-stands-for-cheater/#comment-1195 I've actually wondered why I have come across a good number of women during my short stint on this earth who were OK with being the "other woman". And they were all against cheating, all thought he was going to leave their other woman, all hated this poor girl, and all were mad when all they got in the end was the "pipe". Please ... help us help ourselves ... I’ve actually wondered why I have come across a good number of women during my short stint on this earth who were OK with being the “other woman”. And they were all against cheating, all thought he was going to leave their other woman, all hated this poor girl, and all were mad when all they got in the end was the “pipe”.

Please … help us help ourselves …

]]> By: Shelia http://sheliagoss.com/2007/12/13/c-stands-for-cheater/comment-page-1/#comment-1194 Shelia Thu, 13 Dec 2007 21:03:32 +0000 http://sheliago.powweb.com/sheliawp/2007/12/13/c-stands-for-cheater/#comment-1194 "the way you got the man is the same way you’ll lose the man…" Exactly Gwyneth. I still don't know what the fascination is on purposely going after someone else's man. I'm writing a story now where the character doesn't care whether or not the man she thinks she loves is engaged. I'm hoping she gets some self-respect and see that she deserves better...we'll see where the story goes. “the way you got the man is the same way you’ll lose the man…”

Exactly Gwyneth. I still don’t know what the fascination is on purposely going after someone else’s man. I’m writing a story now where the character doesn’t care whether or not the man she thinks she loves is engaged. I’m hoping she gets some self-respect and see that she deserves better…we’ll see where the story goes.

]]> By: Gwyneth Bolton http://sheliagoss.com/2007/12/13/c-stands-for-cheater/comment-page-1/#comment-1196 Gwyneth Bolton Thu, 13 Dec 2007 20:48:34 +0000 http://sheliago.powweb.com/sheliawp/2007/12/13/c-stands-for-cheater/#comment-1196 Great post, Shelia. I'm always amused by women who got their man when he was cheating on his girlfriend or wife and the act so-oo shocked when he cheats on her. Like the old folks say, the way you got the man is the same way you'll lose the man... Gwyneth Great post, Shelia. I’m always amused by women who got their man when he was cheating on his girlfriend or wife and the act so-oo shocked when he cheats on her. Like the old folks say, the way you got the man is the same way you’ll lose the man…

Gwyneth

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