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On March 7, 2008,
in Relationships,
by Shelia
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I believe so, some do a great job but alot of them get away with so much in modern society and as long as women allow it they will continue to do so…
“as long as women allow it they will continue to do so…”
True.
You’re right which is why I wanted to say that the ladies need to woman up. Stop being so desperate that you allow men to do anything to you. Hold your standards and listen to that small voice that’s trying to tell you AHEAD OF TIME that he’s no good for you.
“Stop being so desperate that you allow men to do anything to you. Hold your standards and listen to that small voice that’s trying to tell you AHEAD OF TIME that he’s no good for you.”
Good advice.
True – we need to “woman up”. We don’t get to accept the behavior, let it slide and then one day decide we’ve had enough. If you know a behavior doesn’t work for you, say it upfront. Sometimes a person does what they do to test the boundaries, other times they simply don’t know. Either way, if it bothers you, speak on it. And yes, it works both ways.
I think sometimes women accept bad behavior and treatment because we think we deserve it. So I say work on yourself First and Foremost. Improve yourself healthwise, spiritually, educationally. Learn a philosophy like the Law of Attraction etc. Learn to use your intuition. And as you’re doing all of this, all of those bad elements, including bad men will fall away. Or you might have to kick them out. But if you are consistently working on yourself, growing stronger day by day, you’ll have the strength to rid yourself of all negativity and resist the urge to back track. And you’ve got to be able to say: I can be happy with our without a man. I can be happy with or without a man….
I must say … I’m a little confused. What do you mean by more accountable?
Did I miss the memo saying all of us men were no longer accountable for the failure or success of our individual relationships?
SBM–nothing is ever 100 percent…but in general, some women let men get away with way too much.