5 Signs You May Be Falling in Love or Not
1. You can’t stop thinking about him.
He crosses your mind throughout the day no matter what you’re doing. He’s part of your thoughts whether you’re sleeping or awake. No matter how hard you try, you can’t stop thinking about him.
Be careful that you don’t neglect others (family/friends) while focusing so much energy into your new man.
2. You get butterflies every time you hear his name.
You haven’t felt this way since your first love. The strange feeling leaves you feeling a little fluttery. It’s a feeling that comes over you every time you hear his name.
Be sure this feeling isn’t trying to alert you to something else.
3. You see yourself dating him exclusively.
You’re at a point you want to commit to him and him alone. You’re willing to take a chance to an exclusive relationship.
Don’t go fantasizing about matching towels just yet. Make sure you know what you’re getting into.
4. You walk around with a silly grin on your face.
Your friends and family comment that you have this goofy smile on your face–for no apparent reason. You try to curb your enthusiasm,, for your new beau, but it’s unavoidable.
Don’t fret that your family and friends don’t feel the same way about your man. Give them some time.
5. You hear a love song on the radio and it reminds you of your man.
Every slow jam that comes on the radio reminds you of how you feel about your man. You download old school slow jams to your mp3 player.
Be careful that you’re not getting caught up in the “idea” of being in love.
Love is a beautiful thing; especially when it’s reciprocated.
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Thanks Shelia,
all those things mean I am still in love…
August 2, 2008 – thirty years married!
Blessings,
angelia
Does all of that apply to us guys too?
Not sure I’ve ever had butterflies.
But, can all this just lead to puppy love? I have felt what I think is the male equivalent, only to find myself feeling nothing after another 2 months. *sigh* … maybe its just my ADD.
Nooooooooo, Sheila. I don’t want to fall in love. Ever again. That ish hurts.
LOL.
I agree that reciprocated love is the true definition of love.
I agree, the butterflies are a clear indication whenever I am “feeling” a woman.
You know those signs also prove true for us men when it comes to falling in love with you all…Although i’d swap #2 for “When you want to spend more time with her then your boys”
-B.Price
Angelia, congratulations on your long and happy marriage.
LOL SBM…if you feel nothing after two months; it might not have been TRUE love…maybe infactuation. Been there…lol
Don, don’t run from love…lol Yes, loving the wrong person can hurt. I think if with the right one it can be a beautiful thing. Don’t run from love
BPrice, that’s a good one too. I usually can tell when a “once single” friend isn’t single anymore when they don’t have time to hang out much anymore.
I’m in love with my husband. I just love him so, I’ve know him since high school, and I’m still falling in love. It’s amazing. We got it bad.
35%Off – for you, I guess it would be in the “Not” love category
MrsGrapevine – I love real life love stories.
I like this list.
As someone else commented, we also need a companion lit to determine whether or not the feelings are mutual…if not the woman should just enjoy #s 1,2,4 & 5…but NEVER, EVER tell the guy she feels this way…In that case it’s just a harmless crush….
Leah, if you start feeling these things, you have to figure out is it really love or a mere crush.
Oh Gawd…. all the things I dread. LOL Darnit! I’m in love?!?!?!?!?!?!
Good post.