Comments on: Love at First Sight - Yes or No http://sheliagoss.com/2008/04/30/love-at-first-sight-yes-or-no/ Official Website of Essence Best Selling Author Sat, 06 Sep 2008 04:30:43 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.2 By: Heather http://sheliagoss.com/2008/04/30/love-at-first-sight-yes-or-no/#comment-2818 Heather Thu, 08 May 2008 01:47:35 +0000 http://sheliagoss.com/2008/04/30/love-at-first-sight-yes-or-no/#comment-2818 I was smitten with my husband when we first met but I tried not to get too excited so I would not be disappointed. When I would get over excited about someone I first met, i tended to be let down, rapidly. I think there are a bunch of guys who like the chase so any girl who falls easily is not that appealing. I was smitten with my husband when we first met but I tried not to get too excited so I would not be disappointed. When I would get over excited about someone I first met, i tended to be let down, rapidly. I think there are a bunch of guys who like the chase so any girl who falls easily is not that appealing.

]]> By: Eb the Celeb http://sheliagoss.com/2008/04/30/love-at-first-sight-yes-or-no/#comment-2553 Eb the Celeb Thu, 01 May 2008 21:45:12 +0000 http://sheliagoss.com/2008/04/30/love-at-first-sight-yes-or-no/#comment-2553 Never experienced it and dont feel it exists... Lust at first sight... now I've had that on plenty of occasions... but how can you love someone instantaneously and you dont even know them. Never experienced it and dont feel it exists… Lust at first sight… now I’ve had that on plenty of occasions… but how can you love someone instantaneously and you dont even know them.

]]> By: Leah Mullen http://sheliagoss.com/2008/04/30/love-at-first-sight-yes-or-no/#comment-2532 Leah Mullen Wed, 30 Apr 2008 23:01:30 +0000 http://sheliagoss.com/2008/04/30/love-at-first-sight-yes-or-no/#comment-2532 My take is that anything that happens "at first sight" may be biological, but it certainly isn't love. True lasting love takes time. Also it must be vetted and tested to know if it's real or just infatuation. And if you're following THE RULES, you should wait until he professes his love to you. Otherwise you risk being rejected...Why not let him take the risk? My take is that anything that happens “at first sight” may be biological, but it certainly isn’t love. True lasting love takes time. Also it must be vetted and tested to know if it’s real or just infatuation. And if you’re following THE RULES, you should wait until he professes his love to you. Otherwise you risk being rejected…Why not let him take the risk?

]]> By: Shelia http://sheliagoss.com/2008/04/30/love-at-first-sight-yes-or-no/#comment-2529 Shelia Wed, 30 Apr 2008 21:35:58 +0000 http://sheliagoss.com/2008/04/30/love-at-first-sight-yes-or-no/#comment-2529 Jackie, wow, that's amazing. I have never experienced the "love at first sight." This guy I dated for about a month said he was in love but I didn't feel like he knew me well enough. He started telling me he loved me and it made me uncomfortable. When I told him that I wasn't "where he was" yet, he got mad and I haven't heard from him since. So was it love--I don't think so. I think he thought I would fall for any guy who said those three words. Ms. Freckles, I know what you mean. We have to make sure that we don't get the lust and love confused. lol Jackie, wow, that’s amazing. I have never experienced the “love at first sight.” This guy I dated for about a month said he was in love but I didn’t feel like he knew me well enough. He started telling me he loved me and it made me uncomfortable. When I told him that I wasn’t “where he was” yet, he got mad and I haven’t heard from him since. So was it love–I don’t think so. I think he thought I would fall for any guy who said those three words.

Ms. Freckles, I know what you mean. We have to make sure that we don’t get the lust and love confused. lol

]]> By: Ms. freckles http://sheliagoss.com/2008/04/30/love-at-first-sight-yes-or-no/#comment-2527 Ms. freckles Wed, 30 Apr 2008 18:43:47 +0000 http://sheliagoss.com/2008/04/30/love-at-first-sight-yes-or-no/#comment-2527 I'd have to say NO to the "love at first site" thing. I have had "lust" at first site and "damn...if I was a whore named Bunny I'd sack him right now because he's just that sexy" at first site....but definitely not "love at first site". I’d have to say NO to the “love at first site” thing.
I have had “lust” at first site and “damn…if I was a whore named Bunny I’d sack him right now because he’s just that sexy” at first site….but definitely not “love at first site”.

]]> By: Jackie Moore http://sheliagoss.com/2008/04/30/love-at-first-sight-yes-or-no/#comment-2525 Jackie Moore Wed, 30 Apr 2008 17:58:20 +0000 http://sheliagoss.com/2008/04/30/love-at-first-sight-yes-or-no/#comment-2525 The first time I went out with my husband, (now my ex) I knew that I would marry him and I did. The first time I went out with my husband, (now my ex) I knew that I would marry him and I did.

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