An Open Letter to My Role Model - Part of the Every Day is Mother’s Day Tour
Posted by: Shelia in Books, tags: APOOO Book ClubToday I’m featured on APOOO’s website during the Every Day is Mother’s Day Tour. I wrote An Open Letter to My Role Model and would like to share it with you all here.
There’s a little contest going on too, so I really REALLY need for you to leave a comment :). Share some of your own experiences good or bad or just let me know you read it :)
An Open Letter to My Role Model:
There are so many words that have gone left unsaid. I wanted you to know it’s an honor and a privilege to have you as my mom. The teenage years were a little rough because of the “you just don’t understand me” phase, but we made it through. I laugh now at how I thought I knew it all and didn’t have a clue. Although I may not always say it, the things you’ve taught me over the years have come in handy in more ways than one. I now realize the things you tried to teach me were for my own good. You didn’t want your precious daughter to go through any unnecessary heartaches and pains. Sadly, I didn’t listen in some situations but you never said the words “I told you so” as you could have easily done. Instead, you helped me through the situations and I learned through the school of hard knocks.
As an adult, I realize that I lived like a little princess compared to how some people grew up. I want to thank you for the “normal” childhood that so many others didn’t get a chance to enjoy. I grew up with two loving parents and got to experience life as it was meant to be. Through your life example, you taught me so much. You taught me how to be the responsible adult I am now. You taught me how to be grateful. You taught me how to be unselfish. You taught me how to think for myself. You taught me how to treat others like you want to be treated. You taught me that having faith in God will get you through the good times and bad. You taught me how to show compassion. You taught me how to be a caregiver. You taught me how to live and to love.
You’ve been my number one fan and during the times where I wanted to give up, you were the one who encouraged me. As we celebrate all mothers during the month of May, I wanted to publicly acknowledge to the world that I think I have the greatest mom.
Signed,
Shelia M Goss
Daughter of the Perfect Role Model






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May 13th, 2008 at 10:25 am - Edit
Very Nice Shelia,
I know your mom will be proud!
PS: Werent we all know it alls! :>
angelia
May 13th, 2008 at 10:42 am - Edit
Angelia, girl didn’t we though…thought we knew everything but didn’t know a thing.
May 13th, 2008 at 11:44 am - Edit
I respect this post Sheila. Love the fact that you poured out your emotions. So cool. I cann’t add anything as far as my mom. She did not raise me. We haven’t actually seen one another since the year 2000. Mothers Day, to be exact.
But I did tak the time to call her Sunday and wish her a Happy Moms Day. She was shocked. Absolutely shocked.
May 13th, 2008 at 11:52 am - Edit
Very sweet letter. Bet you made your mother’s day!
May 13th, 2008 at 11:52 am - Edit
Don, I had something else typed over the weekend but the night before it was due, I changed my mind and wrote this. Don, whether she said it or not I’m sure you calling her on Mother’s Day made her day.
May 13th, 2008 at 12:04 pm - Edit
Carleen, she hasn’t seen it yet. She’s out of town and won’t be back until Saturday so she’ll get it when she checks her email then
May 13th, 2008 at 12:05 pm - Edit
Greetings Shelia and thanks for participating in the Every Day is Mother Day’s Tour. I hope you shared your article with your mom as I know she would appreciate reading how important you are to her. Behind every good child is a STRONG Black mother!
xoxo
May 13th, 2008 at 12:17 pm - Edit
This is very nice. Your mom is sure to shed a tear and reflect on a job well done!
May 13th, 2008 at 12:39 pm - Edit
This is a great tribute to your mother. Your mother will be truly overwhelmed with appreciation for this heartfelt tribute.
May 13th, 2008 at 12:50 pm - Edit
Beautiful and Serene. This is wonderful. Thanks for sharing your world!
May 13th, 2008 at 1:29 pm - Edit
Shelia -
That was so touching and will mean so much to your mother.
Take care
Beverly
May 13th, 2008 at 1:32 pm - Edit
Shelia, that was great article and tribute to your mom. It was beautifully done. Your mom is going to love it!
May 13th, 2008 at 2:27 pm - Edit
What a beautiful tribute to your role model. I know your mother is proud of all you have accomplished.
May 13th, 2008 at 2:58 pm - Edit
Shelia,
This tribute is priceless. I know and respect you tremendously and it is nice to know something of the person who nutured you with the love and integrity that radiates from you always.
May 13th, 2008 at 3:18 pm - Edit
Shelia; you are at it once again! I know your Mother is so proud of you; that was a nice tribute to her in every way. Thanks so much for the opportunity to view the site and always sharing.
Love ya!
May 13th, 2008 at 3:59 pm - Edit
Hi Shelia,
This was an awesome and moving tribute to your mother. I know that she smiled from ear to ear after having read it.
God bless!
Carla
May 13th, 2008 at 5:27 pm - Edit
Wow Sheila,
You said it all. Funny how a mother’s words seem to come right back and slap you in the face. I know she’s proud of you.
Many blessings,
Adriana
May 13th, 2008 at 5:31 pm - Edit
You need to take a screen shot of this. It’s simply wonderful!
May 13th, 2008 at 6:27 pm - Edit
Very nice letter Shelia! It is a blessing to be able to look back and realize that our mother’s were so right and only had our best interest at heart. Just like you, at the time, I thought I knew it all and my mom was just trying to keep me from having fun. Now I Thank God for her persistance and wisdom. Those qualities have been instilled in me to help raise my children. This teenage stuff ain’t no joke! Keep up the good work!
May 13th, 2008 at 7:33 pm - Edit
Shelia, Your letter is beautiful. I know your mother is beaming!
May 14th, 2008 at 2:01 am - Edit
Thanks all for stopping by.
May 15th, 2008 at 12:20 pm - Edit
How beautiful! Having had a wonderful mama myself who is now deceased, I can truly appreciate how you feel Sheila about your mama.
May 21st, 2008 at 2:22 pm - Edit
Wonderful tribute. It is so awesome when God allows us to come full circle and see the error in our ways and the true unconditional love our Moms gave us.
Terri