Comments on: Five Toxic Relationships to Avoid http://sheliagoss.com/2008/05/15/five-toxic-relationships-to-avoid/ Tue, 15 May 2012 08:08:59 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Shelia http://sheliagoss.com/2008/05/15/five-toxic-relationships-to-avoid/comment-page-1/#comment-3300 Shelia Fri, 23 May 2008 01:24:10 +0000 http://sheliagoss.com/2008/05/15/five-toxic-relationships-to-avoid/#comment-3300 Leah, yes we have to do better and remember that some things are within our control. Leah, yes we have to do better and remember that some things are within our control.

]]> By: don http://sheliagoss.com/2008/05/15/five-toxic-relationships-to-avoid/comment-page-1/#comment-3214 don Fri, 16 May 2008 16:44:46 +0000 http://sheliagoss.com/2008/05/15/five-toxic-relationships-to-avoid/#comment-3214 such a sweet soul. sheila. thanks. such a sweet soul. sheila. thanks.

]]> By: Leah Mullen http://sheliagoss.com/2008/05/15/five-toxic-relationships-to-avoid/comment-page-1/#comment-3212 Leah Mullen Fri, 16 May 2008 16:19:55 +0000 http://sheliagoss.com/2008/05/15/five-toxic-relationships-to-avoid/#comment-3212 I have to add one more thing. A lot of young women, myself included (I was clueless in my 20s) do NOT know how to behave and carry themselves in a relationship. And we think it's the righteous thing to do to Nurture and Rescue and to keep track of our guy. Further how about all of the "Dog Catcher" women who need that challenge in order to be attracted to a man. They love the bad boys no matter how much pain it causes, no matter how our self esteem plummets in these relationships. We do it because we do not know what else to do! We may intuitively KNOW better, but we don't know how to DO better. I have to add one more thing. A lot of young women, myself included (I was clueless in my 20s) do NOT know how to behave and carry themselves in a relationship. And we think it’s the righteous thing to do to Nurture and Rescue and to keep track of our guy.

Further how about all of the “Dog Catcher” women who need that challenge in order to be attracted to a man. They love the bad boys no matter how much pain it causes, no matter how our self esteem plummets in these relationships.

We do it because we do not know what else to do! We may intuitively KNOW better, but we don’t know how to DO better.

]]> By: Leah Mullen http://sheliagoss.com/2008/05/15/five-toxic-relationships-to-avoid/comment-page-1/#comment-3211 Leah Mullen Fri, 16 May 2008 16:11:03 +0000 http://sheliagoss.com/2008/05/15/five-toxic-relationships-to-avoid/#comment-3211 Great blog. Early in my marriage I was "The Vocational Counselor" always trying to guide my husband in his career decisions. The profession that he is in now was actually my idea. Thank God my husband was a good sport about my meddling or there would have been some trouble! Great blog. Early in my marriage I was “The Vocational Counselor” always trying to guide my husband in his career decisions. The profession that he is in now was actually my idea.

Thank God my husband was a good sport about my meddling or there would have been some trouble!

]]> By: don http://sheliagoss.com/2008/05/15/five-toxic-relationships-to-avoid/comment-page-1/#comment-3182 don Thu, 15 May 2008 20:48:23 +0000 http://sheliagoss.com/2008/05/15/five-toxic-relationships-to-avoid/#comment-3182 i like this post, sheila. it's funny how i have experienced pretty much every last 1 of these females. damn, what does that say about me. i like this post, sheila.

it’s funny how i have experienced pretty much every last 1 of these females. damn, what does that say about me.

]]> By: Neonnea http://sheliagoss.com/2008/05/15/five-toxic-relationships-to-avoid/comment-page-1/#comment-3180 Neonnea Thu, 15 May 2008 19:04:45 +0000 http://sheliagoss.com/2008/05/15/five-toxic-relationships-to-avoid/#comment-3180 Perhaps the Historian is one to be added as a trait to avoid. This is the lady (or man) that relives the past...often. Nothing wrong with growing from your past mistakes but everyone isn't like Mr./Ms. Wrong that you left behind. Perhaps the Historian is one to be added as a trait to avoid. This is the lady (or man) that relives the past…often. Nothing wrong with growing from your past mistakes but everyone isn’t like Mr./Ms. Wrong that you left behind.

]]> By: Shelia http://sheliagoss.com/2008/05/15/five-toxic-relationships-to-avoid/comment-page-1/#comment-3178 Shelia Thu, 15 May 2008 16:53:52 +0000 http://sheliagoss.com/2008/05/15/five-toxic-relationships-to-avoid/#comment-3178 <b>I usually steer clear of men that spend too much time talking about all the CRAZY things their ex did. She didn’t get that way on her own.</b> Exactly Opinionated Diva. Makes you look at the guy with a sideway glance. I usually steer clear of men that spend too much time talking about all the CRAZY things their ex did. She didn’t get that way on her own.

Exactly Opinionated Diva. Makes you look at the guy with a sideway glance.

]]> By: Opinionated Diva http://sheliagoss.com/2008/05/15/five-toxic-relationships-to-avoid/comment-page-1/#comment-3174 Opinionated Diva Thu, 15 May 2008 16:32:56 +0000 http://sheliagoss.com/2008/05/15/five-toxic-relationships-to-avoid/#comment-3174 This made me laugh, especially the "dog catcher". Hilarious. I usually steer clear of men that spend too much time talking about all the CRAZY things their ex did. She didn't get that way on her own. This made me laugh, especially the “dog catcher”. Hilarious.

I usually steer clear of men that spend too much time talking about all the CRAZY things their ex did. She didn’t get that way on her own.

]]> By: Shelia http://sheliagoss.com/2008/05/15/five-toxic-relationships-to-avoid/comment-page-1/#comment-3172 Shelia Thu, 15 May 2008 15:28:49 +0000 http://sheliagoss.com/2008/05/15/five-toxic-relationships-to-avoid/#comment-3172 Thanks AnythingBlack for stopping by. I try to talk about things that concern women here and I don't forget about the men either. If you ever want to do a guest blog entry, you're welcome to do so. Thanks AnythingBlack for stopping by. I try to talk about things that concern women here and I don’t forget about the men either. If you ever want to do a guest blog entry, you’re welcome to do so.

]]> By: www.anythingblack.net http://sheliagoss.com/2008/05/15/five-toxic-relationships-to-avoid/comment-page-1/#comment-3158 www.anythingblack.net Thu, 15 May 2008 06:46:14 +0000 http://sheliagoss.com/2008/05/15/five-toxic-relationships-to-avoid/#comment-3158 hahaha this is like singleblackmale but for women. cool. hahaha this is like singleblackmale but for women. cool.

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