What do you do when life throws you a curve ball? You throw one back. Lately it seems no matter how hard I work, something always wants to get in the way of me achieving my goals. There have been times I will admit, that I wanted to throw in the towel; but something inside of me, says “Halt. Regroup. Try going at it from a different angle.”
Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t but even still I can’t allow the bumps of life to keep me down. I dust the insecurities off and keep pressing forward. Has this happened to you? Have you been trying to accomplish a goal but it seems like you keep running into a brick wall? Does it seem like “everybody” else is doing what they want to do with their lives but you’re stuck?
How do you get over this hump in your life and continue pursuing your goals, inspite of life’s complications? Below are a few tips that have helped me and hopefully will help you:
- Meditation – Regardless of what your religion is, prayer works. Prayer and Meditation helps you block out the world and concentrate on the issue at hand. No interruptions from the phone, family or friends. This is your “me” time. Just you and God. One on one. Be quiet. Listen.
- Talking About It – Sometimes it helps to talk to someone else about your issue. Maybe you’re too close to the situation and a trusted family member or friend can shed a new light. Sometimes they may not have any advice, but just an ear to listen to you vent; but regardless, talking about it may help shed a new light to your situation.
- Vacation – When life gets too busy or hectic, sometimes you must take a vacation. Take a cruise, visit a place you’ve always wanted to see. If you can’t afford to get away, tell people you are going on vacation and make your home your vacation getaway. Turn off the cell phone, get off the internet (can’t believe I said that…smile), and turn off the TV. See how it feels to do absolutely nothing or start that hobby you’ve been putting off.
- Read a Book – Reading can be relaxing and educational. It depends on what you’re reading. If you’re trying to keep motivated, pick up one of many motivational books and see how you can apply some of the principles to your life. If you need a mental escape, reading a book for entertainment will do the trick.
Regardless of what method you use to regroup, do so. Don’t allow life’s frustrations to deter you. You have a goal in mind, things will come up, but you can’t give up. When life throws you a curve ball, you will bounce back.
Article by National Best-selling Author Shelia M. Goss. She’s the author of several novels - Double Platinum, Paige’s Web, My Invisible Husband and Roses are thorns, Violets are true. To learn more, visit her website at www.sheliagoss.com
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I can’t really say how I get over it…maybe I do a combination of everything you list. I’m not big on meditation though, but I do get to a point where I prefer not to be bothered so I can THINK about what has to change to fix what isn’t working for me.
You’ve got it in a nutshell. I hope things are on the upswing!
Shelia,
Right now I’m feeling overwhelmed, with a very frustrating move (that was postponed once) and now the rush to get everything organized/settled in a new routine, to have someone there to accept furniture deliveries, to clean out the old apartment, a proposal that should have been done weeks ago, and a book deadline that’s getting closer every day. And I still can’t find my rollers, dammit!
I’ve had days and days of nonstop activity from the time I get out of bed until I fall back in that night, exhausted. But last night I got into the Jacuzzi and chilled out, even though it was late. I always suffer when I don’t take time for myself, even if it’s 30 minutes. I tell myself, “And this, too, shall pass.” Of course, if something is meant to be, I’ll get it done. But I also know that all things aren’t meant to be.
Hey, lady. I just wanted to stop by and say hi.
I would have waaaaay too much to say on this topic. yet, i digress.
peace!
Opinionated Diva, sometimes just getting into a “quiet” place is enough.
Linda, thanks. It’s just time to regroup.
Bettye, these are words to live by: all things aren’t meant to be.
D.C., thanks for stopping by.
I totally understand and am going through a period of rejuvenation myself, I was doing too much and pleasing too many, I had to stop and reassess…sometimes brick walls are there for a reason…to slow us down!
Peace and Blessings,
angelia