I don’t want to piss off my male readers but as I listen to my friends talk about some of the men in their lives or men they’ve encountered over the past few weeks some of the guys actions verify why women label some men as dogs.
If you are married or in a committed relationship, do not and I repeat do not pretend to be single and/or available. Real quotes from real men who got busted:
“I’m seperated. We’re just staying in the same house.” (The economy is rough, but come on now. Can he come up with something better than this.)
“I would have told you I was married but I didn’t know how you would take it.” (When did omitting information become so normal???)
“We’re getting a divorce. If you don’t believe me ask my home boy.” (I had to laugh on this. A man’s friend is going to lie to keep up the pretenses; besides, he don’t want his friend to mess up what he has going on.)
“The reason why I haven’t invited you over to my house is because I’m still decorating. I told you I just moved didn’t I?” (If anyone believes this I got some land in the pacific ocean for sale.)
“Oh that’s just my baby’s mama. Ignore her. She just tripping because I moved on.” (Hmm. If you let them talk long enough they’ll tell on themselves. Why is she answering your cell phone? Why didn’t you ever mention you had any kids before? No respect for a man who denies his own kids.)
If you are single and not ready for a committment do not pretend that you are just so you can have access to the goodies.
Don’t think you calling “other” women a “b” or “h” in casual conversation is not disrespectful. If you say that about other women, then there’s no telling what you say about the woman after she leaves your presence.
A woman is not there solely for you to deposit in.
Hearing you brag about all the women you’ve had is not cute. It does raise an eyebrow or two about whether you’re disease free.
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My thing is, by a certain age women know, and they still fall for these lies. You know if you’ve been dating for a while, and you only meet at your place something is up…If Men are dogs, then women are fleas, and they need to resist the temptation, and start doing some research…This day in age, quality men are on shortage, and so research is key, for you safety and happiness…
“research is key, for your safety and happiness…”
Mrs Grapevine I agree with that. I’ll have to find the post where I talk about checking out potential mates and repost later this week. Trust is something earned but yet we tend to give it so freely to folks we know nothing about at times.
I agree, most men are dogs. We tend to think with our sex organ rather than use our brain. I don’t know why it’s this particular way but it is. For the most part, from what I have personally experienced I’d say that I have had my dog moments. Let me say this though – eventually the man wakes up.
And I do agree with you about ‘no telling what the next woman close to the man is and will be called.’
Can you say this louder… can you post it on every possible forum that men read…
have you seen the movie Cover…
I dont think I could even take that kind of cheating…
Don, that’s why I could never say “all” men because there are plenty of good men out there too. Unfortunately lately it seems that the dogs are out–must be the heat…lol
Eb, I haven’t seen the movie Cover. I will have to see if its at Blockbuster.
Girl, tell the truth and shame the devil!
And those quotes/excuses have me laughing my behind off. The games people play… LOL. 
Great post!
Gwyneth
The question at hand is why are u lying…..why are guys still playing games….Me personally after having so many failed attempts with love…I’m letting God lead me to the person I’m supposed to be with…I’m 32 years old now and have had enough with the lies, games,babymama drama etc etc…..
Oh yeah that movie Cover will have your face cracked and on the ground!!!
the heat? LOL. that would do it.