Comments on: What Do Men Really Want?

By: Marie

Marie — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 18:30:26 +0000

Thanks for the help with what men want cause I’m just starting to date again after a 20 year marriage, divorce and then a 12 year relationship gone sour.
I’m not sure of myself and don’t really know what kind of man I want. I’m a beautiful but shy woman who needs companionship. I need a man to pay attention to me. Help.

By: Amber

Amber — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 18:37:19 +0000

I needed to hear that.Thanks for the insight Jason, I feel so much better knowing he does love me.

By: Shelia

Shelia — Wed, 12 Nov 2008 15:01:19 +0000

Thanks all for dropping by.

@ Jason – I need to get that book because as Jen said, you broke it down.

By: Jen

Jen — Wed, 12 Nov 2008 14:48:00 +0000

Jason broke it down.

By: Meachy

Meachy — Tue, 11 Nov 2008 15:44:12 +0000

Luther thanks for clearing that up…..Shelia another great blog!!!

By: Jason

Jason — Tue, 11 Nov 2008 03:56:32 +0000

Hello ladies, i am the author of What Men Desire and women need to know…first let me say this, If a man does not see value in you he will not commit to you. Men protect what they treasure. I have heard in many of the comments that we want a woman who we can have a good time with, one that supports us, and takes care of our sexual needs. Women when you hear this you must understand men are motivated by sight and touch, where as women are motivated by their emotions and things of the heart. Things of the heart are what men need to be instructed in. So when you hear these words you must make sure you do not let our need to satisfy our FLESH determine whether we think you are right for us or not..That is an EXCUSE…Most men do not commit to a woman who gives it up at the drop of a dime, no matter how often he says I LOVE YOU…if love is in the picture, love will put a ring on your finger…Now I know this is not what many of you want to hear but the truth is why would I want you if everyone else has had you…and vice versa. Now I realize not many of us are virgins and once love has been awaken it is hard to put that puppy back to sleep, but that doesnt mean you got to be so easy that he is getting it the first night out or second or third, i mean really do you think that giving it up will keep him there. Has that worked for you yet…WE PROTECT OR COMMIT TO WHAT WE SEE VALUE IN…YOU ARE A TREASURE, A QUEEN. BUT YOUR VALUE IS ONLY HAS MUCH AS THE PERSON LOOKING IS WILLING TO SPEND AND YOU ARE WILLING TO ACCEPT…

GET MY BOOK….I OPEN IT ALL UP…

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By: yasmin

yasmin — Tue, 11 Nov 2008 03:29:17 +0000

Great post Shelia…and I’m so glad I’m not in the dating game…lol.
xoxo

By: Persia Ellis

Persia Ellis — Tue, 11 Nov 2008 00:32:09 +0000

Luther.. I feel you brother. Thanks so much for the clarification.

By: Niambi

Niambi — Tue, 11 Nov 2008 00:26:05 +0000

John’s is a “blue plate special”response – all you could want served up on one wonderful plate

By: LUTHER

LUTHER — Mon, 10 Nov 2008 23:57:16 +0000

I was not speaking of playing around with some other women. The sentence before that should have given some indication what I meant. Play just meant have some time to not be responsible for anything (Wife/girlfriend, kids, job).
I have a full time job as a software architect and I own a trucking business. Have 3 kids and a wife. There are occasions that I do not want to think about any of that. I need to go lose some money playing poker or maybe fish (without the cell ringing telling me want I need to do). I guess it would be called a life timeout. I would be a fool to what women drama in the mix I already have. The thang ain’t that good