Archive for March, 2009

Still Busy Working on #3

            I just wanted to check in to say I’m still here. I finished my edits and turned them in and now I’m working on book #3 in the Lip Gloss Chronicles series. Have a good week!

Next Two Weeks

I’m busy working on edits and a new manuscript. Have a good week all.

How Soon is Too Soon

Dating and relationships can be so complicated. When do you know it’s time to go from “just dating” to a committed relationship?

Is it when:

  • you’re spending more time together than apart
  • time flies by when you’re with them
  • you find you have a lot in common and you actually like them
  • you realize this is someone you want to know better
  • you both realize that you don’t want to date anyone else

Should there be a time line from dating to relationship–should you date for months before deciding he or she is someone you want to see exclusively? How soon is too soon?

How is Your Attitude?

           I try to keep a positive attitude about things. Every now and then however, I let something bring me down.  During those times,  either one of my trusted friends tell me what I don’t want to hear, but need to hear or I have to check myself. 

How do you maintain a positive attitude? 

Stop and Smell the Roses

Do you feel like you’re in a rut? Are you tired of doing the same old thing day in and day out? I have a solution: Stop and Smell the Roses.

A lot of times we get so busy with life, that we forget to stop and enjoy our surroundings.  Lately, every morning when I wake up, I’m greeted by the beautiful sounds of birds chirping outside my window. It’s music to my ears.

I know things happen and we get busy working on this project or that or a family member needs us. We have to stop letting life pass us by. Whether it’s birds chirping or noticing the new bloom on a flower, take the time each day to enjoy your surroundings.  Live your life instead of letting time slip by.

Love Always

Thought for today: If you don’t love yourself, then who will.

Loving one self is not being selfish. If we are to treat others like we treat ourselves, then loving oneself is a must.

Do something special for yourself today.

Let It Go - Part Deaux

Letting go is hard at first. Letting go is a process, but if you practice it daily, you can do it. 

I haven’t always been the calm and sweet woman I am now. I admit there are times when I might slip back into that I don’t give a d*** mode because some man I’ve encountered is showing me that he’s full of B.S.

When my ex-boyfriend showed his a** and hurt me beyond words it took me a minute (okay more than minute) but eventually I had to let go of the anger and move on. Before I let go of the anger, I  was hard on men. I allowed my built up frustrations to be taken out on unsuspecting men. If the guy didn’t do exactly what I wanted, he could hang it up. The new guy didn’t stand a chance. I eventually got over my anger and became the loving and kind woman that I am today:

  •    one who doesn’t settle for less than I deserve (It’s important to know your worth…another blog topic)
  •     one whose tolerance for B.S. is nil, but yet
  •     one who can appreciate a good man who has respect for women

If you live long enough you’re going to experience some things–good and bad. I don’t know one person above the age of 18 that doesn’t have baggage. It’s what you decide to do with that baggage that matters. Are you going to let it weigh you down? Are you going to put it to the side and keep on moving?

Whatever a person decides to do, in order to move on and be happy with self and the opposite sex, Letting Go is a must.

March 2009 Newsletter

March will be a busy month for me as I finish writing the third book in the Lip Gloss Chronicles series. I hope that when The Ultimate Test comes out in May, you will share a copy with a teen in your life.

If you’ve missed some of my stops on “The Invisible Love” tour, be sure to check some of the interviews and posts out on my blog.

Thank you to everyone who signed up to my mailing list over the last few months. The fact you stayed around even when I didn’t have a contest going on means a lot to me.

I hope March is a good month for you all.

The author of the Essence & Black Expressions best-seller My Invisible Husband is back with her fifth novel - His Invisible Wife.

REVENGE…LUST…HOLY MATRIMONY

Texas businessman Jacob “Jake” Banks is about to lose his business and everything else he’s worked for until his uncle dies and leaves him as the executor of his estate–only catch is, he has to marry and marry a specific woman in order to cash in on the inheritance. Big problem, since Jake has vowed to be a bachelor for life.

Brianna Mayfield is at her last rope. Her father lost his business due to Jake’s uncle turning down a loan. She’s convinced this caused her father to fall into a deep depression. She blames the Banks and vows to pay them back one day. When she sees an ad in the paper for a job at her self-proclaimed enemy’s company, she feels her luck is turning around. She applies and is later approached by Jake with a proposition she can’t turn down.

How far would you go for a million dollars?

His Invisible Wife can be pre-ordered on Amazon.com. It will be in stores in July.

The Lip Gloss Chronicles Vol. 1: The Ultimate Test
by Shelia M. Goss

The Diva’s Creed: All for one, one for all; never let the other fall.

Ever since they met in their elite private school, Britney, Jasmine, and Sierra have lived by these words, but now that they’re entering their freshman year in a public high school, their bond is about to be put to the ultimate test.

The daughters of wealthy Texas socialites, these girls are used to getting whatever they want, so it’s no surprise to them when the gorgeous DJ takes them under his wing. Drama soon comes their way in the form of Tanisha, a jealous older student who thinks DJ’s attention should be focused solely on her.

Even Tanisha’s threats can’t intimidate these girls as they form a united front against her. They’re tighter than ever—until a sticky situation complicates everything. Jasmine and Sierra both fall head over heels in love with DJ. Could this really mean the end of their friendship?

The Lip Gloss Chronicles Vol. 1: The Ultimate Test will be in stores at the end of May 2009. To order your copy now, click here.

The Lip Gloss Chronicles Vol. 2: Splitsville will be in stores at the end of September 2009.

Be sure to check out the website: www.thelipglosschronicles.com

  
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