Single women everywhere are wondering where are the single men. As Comeback Girl said on her blog, they aren’t under your couch. So what is a single woman to do? Well, I have a few tips, I like to call the 5 B’s:
#2 on the list – Be Friendly. Nothing says “I’m approachable” like a big ol’ beautiful smile. If you’re in the store and pass by a man you find attractive, it doesn’t hurt to speak first. Don’t walk around frowning. Nobody wants to be around a sourpuss. A friendly gesture might be all it takes for your prince charming to give you a second look.
To read my entire list, read my previous blog post: You Don’t Have to Be Beyonce to Date a Jay Z
Where are the single men? In addition to The Comeback Girls 50 Places List, I would like to add you can find single men at:
- Library
- Post Office
- Wal-Mart
- Gas Station
- Weddings/Reception
- College Homecoming–attending alumni events
- Casinos –you don’t have to gamble to mingle
- House Parties
- Neighborhood – similar to the basketball court–while you’re out taking a walk…never know who you might meet (but heed to Comeback’s disclaimer: be careful…smile)
If you were to advise your single friends, where are other places they can meet other singles?
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I would also add:
airport – especially if you travel for business
golf course or other sporting event
volunteer at organizations – habitats for humanity
You can meet single men on the job too but I wouldn’t advise it.
I would add:
Subway – commuting to/from work
Grocery store
Book store
School – College: if you decide to go back to school for a degree or just to take classes. At your child’s school: he could be a teacher/counselor or a single parent making it happen just like you are.
Neighborhood recreation center
Ladies, these are all good suggestions.
How about asking your friends if they know any single men?
Leah that is a good one. Just make sure if the date is a disaster, that you don’t blame your friend.
Never really had a problem finding a single man now just finding one that I like